Scripts & Objection Handlers

30 scripts and 25 handlers. Search what they said, not what it's called.

Part 1

Scripts

What to say, start to finish. Blanks are yours to fill — everything else is word for word.

Door Knocking & Farming

The neighbourhood you're trying to own.

Door Knocking: Geographic FarmThe introduction, and the version that keeps going.

Builders & New Homes

The sales office that has buyers who need to sell first.

Builder and New Home SalesOne call, and you are the agent they hand out cards for.

Every script in full

The whole dialogue for each one.

Past Clients & Sphere

The people who already know you. The cheapest business there is.

Past Client Text

A cold-start text to someone you sold to years ago.

YouHi (name) the market's really moving and home values are going up, up, up. Curious about your home's new value?
ThemSure, sounds great.
YouWonderful, I'll put together your home's value. Have you done any upgrades? Once it's ready do you want to meet for coffee, or just stop by the house?
If they ask “How's the market?”
YouIt depends … it's different for buyers, sellers, investors or renters. When's a good time to talk?

Past Client / Sphere Call

The catch-up call that ends in a referral ask.

YouHi … this is (name) with (company). It's been a while — I hope you and your family are well.
YouReal quick, I was wondering if I could help you with any real estate questions you might have. Great!
Give them examples so the question isn't abstract
YouAre you curious about the value of your home? Do you want to know what's going on in your neighborhood? General market conditions? Is it time to sell? Should you be refinancing now?
YouAs you know … I want to be your resource for everything real estate related. Please call me if you ever have questions … okay? Terrific!
You(Name) … my business is based on referrals from great clients like you. So … before I let you go … who do you know that needs to buy or sell a home now or in the near future? Excellent!
YouCan you think of anyone from your office, neighborhood, family or church? Super!
YouI appreciate your help and if anyone should come to mind please don't hesitate to call me. Thank you!

Past Client / Sphere Call #2

The direct version: you ask for the favour up front.

YouHi this is (name) with (company). How are you? Terrific!
You(Name), I called because I wanted to ask you a favour. I've set a goal for myself to help (number) families buy or sell a home this year and as you know, referrals are the lifeline of my business.
You(Name), can I ask you a question? Great! Would you feel comfortable referring people to me as a real estate agent? Excellent!
YouWho do you know right now that is looking to buy or sell a home? Great! What are their names and the best number where I can reach them? Super!
YouStatistics show that four to five people you know will be buying or selling a home this year. Did you know that?
You(Name), moving forward, I know this obviously won't be the main thing on your mind, so would you mind if I called every couple of months to check in with you? Terrific!
You(Name), I want to thank you in advance for your help!

Online Leads & Follow Up

The ones that come in off the internet. Speed and an appointment.

Online Lead Follow-Up Dialogue

A registered lead you are calling for the first time.

Your intention for this call is to SET THE APPOINTMENT. Nothing else.
YouHi (name) … this is (name) with (company).
YouYou were recently on our site and we wanted to thank you for registering.
YouWe received your request regarding getting a really good deal on a property in the area … is that the area you're looking to buy in?
YouWhat types of property do you like best … condos or a house? (Wonderful)
YouWhat price range are you looking to buy in? (Terrific)
YouI'm curious … are you currently renting or do you own your home? Do you need to sell before you buy? (Excellent)
YouIs your house currently on the market? (Really)
If renting
YouAre you month to month, or are you in a lease? If you were to find the home of your dreams … could you get out of that lease immediately?
YouBesides online, how else have you been searching for homes?
YouWhat will it take for you to … buy a home …
YouLet's meet for 15–20 minutes … so I can show you what it will take to buy a home in today's competitive market and exactly what our team can do to assist you.
YouWhat would work better for you … (day/time) or (day/time)?
YouGreat! My office is at (address). My office number is (number). I'll send you a confirmation email.
YouIs your email address (repeat it back)? And is this the best number to reach you?
YouEvery seller is going to want to know … are you going to be paying cash … or have you been qualified by a lender? (Perfect)
Cash
YouTerrific … when we meet please bring proof of funds.
They have a lender
YouTerrific … our clients always ask us for a second opinion … would you like one?
No lender
YouWith such a big decision … who you work with matters … we have a great relationship with (lender) … he/she helps all of our clients … why don't I have them give you a call?
You(Name) … will you do me a favour and let me know if something comes up and you can't make it at (time)?

Lead Follow Up — two openers

You said you'd call them back. This is that call.

Option one — you promised to follow up
YouHi (name), it's (name) with (company) … how are you today? We spoke (when/where) about your desire to (buy/sell/invest) … and I'm following up as promised, to schedule a time to meet with you. Do you have your calendar handy? Are mornings, afternoons or early evenings better for you? How about (date) and (time)?
Option two — you have a reason to call
YouHi (name) … it's (name) at (company) … I've been thinking about you and your desire to (what they want) … I've been doing some research and would like to schedule a time to meet to (show you what I've found / see your home / discuss next steps) … what would be the best time to get together?

Follow Up When the Market Is Scary

Rates jumped, the news is loud, and they have gone quiet.

YouHi (name), it's (name) with (company). I know I told you I'd check in with you regarding buying/selling.
YouI'm happy to talk about real estate but first I wanted to ask — how are you and your family? How's work?
YouIs there anything you may need outside of real estate right now that we could help with?
YouThe reason for my call is that there's a lot of misinformation and confusion about what's happening in the market. I'm reaching out to all my clients … like yourself … to educate and inform them on the reality of what's actually occurring.
YouI'm curious, what questions do you have about the market right now?
YouBecause of rates and inventory levels, we're seeing the market continue to move. In the last 7 days there have been (x) sales and (x) new listings, and we're still seeing multiple offers in some cases. It's surprising, even to us.
YouSo I'm curious — how is this affecting your plans to buy/sell? What impact has this had on your timeframe?
If they're holding off
You(Name) I completely understand and support that decision. We have a lot of people doing that. When this ends — and it will end — are you still looking to move? How can I support you in the meantime so you're prepared when you're ready?
If they're still interested
You(Name), there are different approaches we take during a time like this. Would you like to know how we do that?
YouI want to make sure that when the market settles you're prepared and ahead of the curve. Let's set an appointment to discuss the strategy and create the plan so you don't miss out.
YouI've got time at (time) or (time) — which works better for you?

Open Houses

Everything from the invite to the sign-in sheet to the follow-up question.

Open House: Email to Your Database

Sent the week of the open house.

Subject line
YouGuess what I'm doing this weekend?
Body
YouHi (name), hope all is well with you. This weekend I'll be holding a just-on-the-market listing at (address) open from (time) to (time). If you're in the neighborhood, stop by — I would love to see you.
YouIf you know someone who's looking for (describe the property simply) feel free to forward this along to them. Make sure you watch the video! I hope to see you soon.

Open House: Neighbour Door Knock

The Saturday before. This is where the listings come from.

YouHello … my name is (name) with (company) … and I'll be hosting a special open house at (address) on (day) from (time).
YouDid you know this home was for sale?
Hand them a flyer or invite
YouI promised the seller I'd get the word out in the neighbourhood … and I was curious … who do you know that might want to live in our area?
YouWonderful … again, it's this Sunday from (time) … feel free to stop by, I'd love to show you the home.
YouBy the way … have you ever considered selling your home?

Open House: The Welcome

The first twenty seconds at the door.

YouWelcome … please come in. I'm (name) with (company).
YouWhat's your name? Nice to meet you, (name).
YouDo you live in the neighbourhood … or are you out looking at houses today?
YouThe sellers have asked everyone to sign in, for protection purposes — would you sign in please?
YouCome in and take a look around.
Then use the questions below once they've walked the house

Open House Visitor: Out Looking

They're shopping. Turn the visit into an appointment.

YouHow long have you been looking for a home? How are you searching for properties now?
YouHave you seen any properties you liked? Are you also looking in other areas? Tell me about that.
YouIf you found the perfect home, how soon would you like to move in?
YouWhat's your price range? Good for you!
YouHave you spoken with a lender and been pre-approved?
You(Name) … I know of a few additional homes that are (coming to market / pocket listings / on the market) … would you like to see one of them?
YouWhen is the best time for you to see property? Great, let's get together on (day) at (time).
YouBefore we meet … I have a terrific lender who always seems to find the best rates and programs, and most importantly gets the job done. Would you like a second opinion on your borrowing options?
YouWhat's the best phone number and email for you?

Open House Visitor: From the Neighbourhood

The nosy neighbour is a listing appointment.

YouHow long have you lived in the neighbourhood? Good for you.
YouIf you were to sell your home … where would you move to? Terrific!
YouHow soon would you like to be there? Great — tell me more about that.
YouSo, what's causing you to move to (x)? Interesting!
YouDo you have a plan B … in case that doesn't work out?
YouWhy don't we schedule an appointment … so I can show you what my company and I can do to make this move good for you. Which is better for you, (day) or (day)?

Door Knocking & Farming

The neighbourhood you're trying to own.

Door Knocking: Geographic Farm

The introduction, and the version that keeps going.

YouHello … I'm (name) from (company). How are you today?
YouI'd like to introduce myself. You'll see me from time to time — if you have any questions regarding real estate please feel free to contact me. Here is a neighbourhood update for you.
You can stop there. Or keep going:
YouI'm curious … how long have you lived here? That's wonderful!
YouHow did you pick this neighbourhood? That's awesome!
YouWhere did you move from? Interesting!
YouIf you could live anywhere else … where would that be? Wow!
YouWhen would you like to be there? Great!
YouI'd love to hear more about your next move. Are you available to meet today or (day)? Perfect!
YouI'd like to send some information and an appointment confirmation to you by email. What's your best email address? Thank you!
Don't forget to get their name and phone number.

Expireds

Their home didn't sell and they are sick of agents. Ask why.

Expired: Door Knocking

At the door, the day it expires.

YouHi, I'm (name) with (company). I noticed your home didn't sell … and I was curious … why didn't it sell?
YouIf we had written an all-cash, great-terms offer yesterday … where would you be moving to? Is that something you'd still like to do?
YouI've discovered there are only three reasons a great home like yours doesn't sell:
YouOne — the marketing and exposure wasn't enough to attract the buyers and agents in the area. Two — the home didn't show well or capture the buyer's emotions. Three — the pricing strategy.
YouI'm curious … where did your agent fail?
YouBottom line is … I've succeeded where others have failed. If I can market it properly and sell your home in the next 30 days, would it be worth it for us to sit down and explore it?

Expired: Phone Call

The call, and the questions that get them talking.

YouHi … I'm looking for (name). This is (name) with (company). I noticed your home was no longer posted online … and I was calling to see … is it on, or off the market?
YouAre you taking your home off the market? Are you getting a lot of calls?
YouYou may be asking yourself … where were these agents when my home was on the market, right?
YouIf you had sold this home … where were you moving to? If I brought you an all-cash buyer, close in 30 days, where would you like to move to?
YouWhat was your original timeframe to sell and be moved? Ouch. / Really?
YouWhy do you think your home did not sell? Really?
YouHow did you pick the last agent you listed with?
YouKnowing what you now know … what will you expect from the next agent you choose?
YouWhat type of feedback did you get from the people who saw your home? Tell me more about that.
YouThere are only two reasons a home doesn't sell … the price … and the exposure or marketing to attract qualified buyers. If I can show you how to make the necessary changes to get more showings and ultimately sell your home, would that be of interest to you? Perfect!
YouLet's set an appointment so we can figure out exactly what it will take to sell your home. Can I come by today at (time), or is (time) better for you?

For Sale By Owner

Three ways in. All three end with you seeing the house.

FSBO Phone #1

The area-specialist angle. Ask about the house first.

YouHi, I'm looking for the owner of the home for sale. This is (name) with (company).
YouAs an area specialist, my goal is to know about all the homes for sale in the marketplace for the buyers I'm working with. Do you mind if I ask you a few questions about your property? Excellent!
YouI know the ad said it had (#) bedrooms and (#) baths — are the rooms a good size? How is the kitchen? Have the bathrooms been remodelled? Would you tell me about the yard?
YouTell me about your neighbourhood — do you feel it's nice for raising a family? Is there anything else that's important to know?
YouSounds like you have a great home — why are you selling? Great!
YouWhere are you moving? Terrific! How did you decide on that area? Fantastic!
YouWho did you want to sell your home to: a friend, neighbour or a relative? Great!
YouHow much is the new house you are buying? Good for you!
YouSo, do you have to sell this home first to close on the new one? Great!
YouWhat is your time frame? Okay.
YouHow did you determine your sales price? Got it.
YouYou know, with as many homes as are on the market right now, what are you doing differently to market yours? What else?

FSBO Phone #2

Short, upfront, and straight to the timeline question.

YouHi, I'm calling about the ad — you sound like the owner.
YouGreat (name), this is (name) representing (company). I know you have the home up for sale by owner, and I understand you're trying to sell it yourself, so I won't take up much of your time.
YouI was wondering … are you cooperating with real estate agents?
YouWhere specifically is the property located? (Get the address.) What subdivision is that in? Terrific!
YouCould you describe the landscaping? Sounds great!
YouHow would you rate the interior — average, above average, or needs improvement? Excellent!
YouWow, this home sounds great … why would you even want to sell it? Good for you!
YouIf you sold this home, where would you go next? That's exciting! How soon do you have to be there? Really?
YouHow long have you owned this home? Good for you!
YouNot that the price is too high or too low, however I'm curious … how did you determine the sales price? Wonderful!
YouWhy did you decide to sell yourself rather than hire a powerful agent … like (name) … for the job of selling the home? Excellent!
YouWhat time frame have you given yourself before you'll interview a powerful agent, like me, for the job of selling your home? Wonderful!
If they say never
YouWhat has to happen … before you will consider … hiring a powerful agent, like me, for the job of selling your home? I see.

FSBO Phone #3

You say you're an agent in the first ten seconds.

YouHi, I'm calling about the ad — you sound like the owner?
YouGreat (name), this is (name) representing (company). I just want you to know up front that I'm a real estate agent, okay?
Compliment the area
YouNow, you're selling the home yourself without an agent, right? Wonderful!
YouWhat time frame have you given yourself before you'd consider listing and selling through a real estate agent?
YouSpecifically, where is the property located? (Get the address.)
YouWhat type of landscaping do you have on the property? Great!
YouHow would you rate the interior — average, above average, or needs improvement? Interesting.
YouWow … this home sounds great! Why would you even want to sell it? Really!
YouHow soon do you have to be out of there? I understand. How long have you owned this home? Wow!
YouAre you prepared to adjust your price down when working with a buyer? Great!
YouWhy did you decide to sell yourself, rather than hire a powerful agent like me for the job of selling the home?
YouThis sounds great. Since you're selling a home in (area) and I sell a lot of homes here, you should invite me over so I can see your home. That way I could describe it to a potential buyer. Doesn't that make sense?

Buyers

Qualifying them, winning them, and earning the exclusive.

Buyer Pre-Qualifying

The free-consultation call, before you put anyone in a car.

YouWhat price range are you looking in?
YouWho has been helping you with your home search? Good for you!
YouAre you currently renting the property you live in, or do you own? When does your lease end?
YouDo you need to sell before buying?
If yes
YouExcellent! What we can do is meet to discuss what your home is worth in today's market … as well as what's available for you to purchase. Would (day) at (time) work for you?
YouWho else is involved in the decision to buy a home? Excellent!
YouWhen would be a good time for us to meet … so I can help you find the home you're looking for? Would (day) or (day) at my office work? Perfect!
YouWhat other special requirements do you want in your new home?
YouI have access to every single property available. Have you seen any homes online, in a newspaper or driving around that you'd like to see?
YouDo you already have a lender? Perfect! Pre-qualification amount? Great!
YouMy lender is extremely aggressive and finds the absolute best rates — would you like a second opinion on your loan? I'll have my lender contact you.
YouLet's get together on (day) at (time) to start the process — sound good?

Buyer's Unique Selling Proposition

Why you, and not the agent who just opens doors.

YouBuying the right home can be very challenging these days. How's it working for you?
Let them answer
YouWhat I've found is most agents don't have a plan to help their buyers. Instead they just show them homes you could have seen online. By the way, are you looking for homes online?
Let them answer
YouWell … that's why we've developed a proven strategy to assist our clients in finding the right home, in the right location, on the right terms and at the right price.

Attracting Buyers — the close to the meeting

You've heard enough. Book the consultation.

YouBased on what you've told me … I'm certain I can assist you! Let's schedule a time to sit down so I can show you exactly how we position you to win in this market. What's your schedule like this week?
YouGreat, let's meet at my office — how's (day and time)?
YouAt this meeting we'll outline the best process for you and your family to buy a home … sound good? I can't wait to meet with you!

Buyer Consultation Questionnaire

The sit-down. Ask all of it, write it all down.

YouSo, tell me about yourselves. What are some of the reasons for making the move?
YouHow long have you been looking? (Probe.) What websites do you use to find property? How's it going so far?
YouTell me … what hasn't worked for you in the home-buying process?
YouHave you seen anything you really like? Or written offers on?
YouHave you narrowed your focus to a specific community? What's important to you about the location you live in?
YouTell me about the … ideal … new home. How many bedrooms? How many baths? What additional rooms do you need?
YouTell me about your ideal location. What are the five things you can't live without? What should we avoid with your new home?
YouWhat's most important to you in buying a new home? And how is that important to you?
YouSo … let's recap … you want a home with (x), (y) and (z). And you also want (a), (b) and (c). Did I miss anything?
This is where you feed their values back to them
YouAnd how about the agent you choose to represent you — what's important about that?
YouWhat's your timing? How soon would you like to be in the new home? What's your plan B, in case this doesn't work out?
YouWhat price range are you looking in?
YouHave you met with a lender? What have they told you? How much money are you planning to put down? If there was an advantage to a second opinion, would you be interested?
YouIs there anyone else involved in the home-buying process?
YouI've asked you so many questions … do you have any questions for me?

Buyer Consultation: Earning the Exclusive

The part where you ask them to hire you.

YouNow that I know exactly what's important to you … and we're clear on the home-buying process … I want to spend some time quickly showing you what I do above and beyond for my clients.
YouWhen you hire me as the agent to represent you, I do so much more than the average agent. For example:
YouI only work with a small number of great clients at a time, to ensure a personal touch.
YouI preview daily and weekly on your behalf.
YouI contact the best agents for their coming-soon listings to get you early notice.
YouI use a marketing letter to find off-market homes.
YouI research bank-owned and notices of default.
YouI will door knock communities you like to find you a home.
YouI will only show you property that matches what you want.
YouI will negotiate aggressively on your behalf.
YouI will work with your lender and our affiliates to ensure a smooth transaction and close.
YouBottom line … buying a home can be stressful. My job is to remove as much of the stress as possible … does that make sense?
YouSo, would you like me to help you find a home?

Sellers & Listing Appointments

Before you drive out there, and the questions that set up the price.

Pre-Qualifying the Listing Appointment

The confirmation call the day before. This is where you win it.

YouHi (name) … it's (name) with (company) … I'm calling to confirm our appointment for (day/time) … does that time still work for you?
YouI'm really excited about the opportunity to work with you. I take this process very seriously and I'm committed to getting your property sold at the highest price in the shortest time frame. I want to be 100% prepared before I come out … so I have some additional questions for you.
YouLet's confirm … when we sell your home … you're moving to (city), correct? And you want to be there by (time frame), right?
YouAssuming you … choose me … to represent you … how soon can we begin marketing your property?
YouTell me again … your main reasons for selling this property?
YouSo … what price do you want to sell your home for? How did you determine that price? And how much do you owe on the property?
YouAre there any other special features of the home you feel could impact the value?
YouIs there anything that could be perceived as a negative, that could also impact the property value?
YouThis sounds great — I'll be sending over my marketing proposal by email … will you take a few moments and review it before I arrive?
YouWill all the decision makers be there?
If you're competing, ask this
YouSo tell me … what are you looking for in the agent you choose to represent you?

Additional Qualifying Questions

The three that tell you whether tonight is a signing.

YouHow will you know when you have the right agent?
YouDo you have any questions for me before I arrive, to prepare for our meeting?
YouObviously … if you're as confident as I am that I can … sell your home … will you be ready to … list with me … at the appointment?
If no — “Tell me about that?” and discover and resolve it now, not on the doorstep
If yes
YouWonderful! Please have a copy of your key and your mortgage information handy for me, okay?
YouThis sounds great — I have everything I need to prepare. Again, I'll be sending over my marketing plan … will you take a few moments and review it? I look forward to seeing you (day/time). Have a great day.

Universal Qualifying Questions

Works on almost any lead. Change the opener, keep the questions.

YouIf you sell your home, where are you moving to? Terrific!
YouHow soon would you like to be there? Tell me about that.
YouSo, what's causing you to move to (x)? Tell me more about that.
YouWho is involved in the process of (x)? How do you feel about it?
YouWhat has to happen in order for you to (x)?
YouDo you have a plan B … in case this doesn't work out?
YouLet's go ahead and set an appointment … which is better for you, mornings or afternoons? How about (time) or (time)?

Builders & New Homes

The sales office that has buyers who need to sell first.

Builder and New Home Sales

One call, and you are the agent they hand out cards for.

YouHello (name). This is (name) with (company). How are you today? Great!
You(Name), I'm calling to see if you and I can help each other. Do you have a moment? Excellent!
YouI was curious … do you have any homes that you could close if the buyers didn't have a home to sell? Great!
YouDo you know if those buyers are currently listed?
You(Name), my goal is to help you sell your homes faster. If your prospective buyers have an agent to assist them through the selling process, it would make your job much easier. Wouldn't you agree? Fantastic!
You(Name), could you do me a favour? If I send you my cards … would you hand them out to your prospective buyers? Wonderful!
YouBefore I let you go, I was wondering … who's helping you with the marketing of your properties? Terrific!
YouMy marketing plan will only take 10 to 15 minutes of your time. When can I come by and quickly show you how I can get your properties sold? Is (time) or (time) better for you?

Assume the Deal

Logistics questions that take the job instead of asking for it. Use “we”, never “I” or “you”.

How this works

Read this before you use the three lists below.

YouThis isn't a closing line you save for the end. It's every stage, both sides of the business.
YouThe best ones are logistics questions — a logistics question never sounds like selling, it just sounds like a guy doing his job.
Also: use “we” instead of “I” or “you”. Notice that not one line below asks for the job. Every one of them takes it.

Assume the Deal: Listing Side

Seller, from first contact through escrow.

First contact
YouWhat's a good day to get out and see it — Thursday or Friday?
YouWho else is going to be there when I come by?
YouBefore we go live, is there anything you're planning to fix?
YouIs there a garage code, or do I need a key when we start showings?
At the appointment
YouWhat's a good day to get photos done?
YouWhen we go live, is there a good spot to put the sign in the yard?
YouAre the appliances staying, or are those going with you?
YouHow much notice do you need to give your tenant before we start showings?
YouWhere are you headed after this one sells?
Pricing and going live
YouOnce we're on the market, showings weekdays or weekends only?
YouWhen we go live Monday, the strategy is …
YouDo you want me to hold offers, or review them as they come in?
YouWhen we do a price adjustment, do you want it at day 14 or day 21?
YouWhat's the earliest you could be out if this one goes fast?
Offers and escrow
YouWhen we're reviewing offers …
YouHow much time do you need between accepting an offer and being out?
YouWhen we open escrow … When you're in the new place …

Assume the Deal: Buy Side

Buyer, from the first call to the keys.

First call
YouWhat's your lender's name? I'll give him a call today.
YouI'll have our lender give you a call. What's a good time?
YouWeekends or weekdays to get out and see homes?
YouWho's coming with you when we go look?
YouWhen we find the one, how fast do you want to move?
YouI'll send you three tonight — is text better, or email?
Out looking
YouWhat does the next one have to have that this one didn't?
YouWhen we come back for a second look, do you want your parents here?
YouWhen we write on one of these, are we paying cash or getting a loan?
Writing and offers
YouWhen we start making offers …
YouWhen we get this accepted, do you have an inspector or do you want some recommendations?
YouWhen we open escrow, your deposit goes in within three days — you'll wire that to escrow?
YouWho else is on the loan besides you?
Escrow and after
YouBy the time we close …
YouWhen we get the keys, are you moving that weekend?
YouWhen you're in the new place, who gets which room?

Assume the Deal: Either Side

Steal these first.

YouWhen we sign …
YouThe first thing we'll do is …
YouOnce we get started …
YouWhen we open escrow …
YouWhen we talk Sunday night …
YouMy coordinator takes over the paperwork once we're in escrow — is this the best number for her?
YouWhat's the best number to reach you when things start moving fast?
YouI'll put you on my calendar Thursday — morning or afternoon?
YouWhen's she home tonight? I'll do fifteen minutes on Zoom with both of you.
YouBefore we get going, is there anything I should know that hasn't come up?
Part 2

Objection Handlers

What to say when they push back. Find it by what they actually said.

FSBOs & Expireds

“We'll do it ourselves” and “the last agent never showed it.”

“We want to try selling it ourselves.”“The last agent never showed our home himself.”

Every handler in full

What they say, and exactly what you say next.

Buyers Who Won't Commit

They like you. They just won't sign anything yet.

“How about if I sign your agreement after we go out one or two times?”

ThemHow about if I sign your agreement after we go out one or two times?
YouI hear you … in that case, let's sign a one-party showing agreement on the homes you'd like to see … it's done every day in real estate … let me grab that.

“I have a friend in the business who'll give me a discount. Will you?”

ThemI have a friend in the business who will give me a discount commission. Will you do the same?
YouNo … I would suggest working with your friend instead.
Pause. Let it sit.
You(Name), I'm curious … is your friend willing to do all the extra work I'm willing to do? And do they have my contacts, resources and skills?

“My listing agent is giving me a point back. Will you?”

ThemMy listing agent is giving me a point back if I buy a home through him. Will you do the same? If not, why should I use you?
YouSimple … your listing agent is busy working to get your home sold. I'm going to put my aggressive marketing plan to work to find your home. Besides … my commission is paid by the seller … okay?

“I don't want to commit to one person right now.”

ThemI don't want to commit to one person right now.
YouI hear that a lot … and guess what … most people start by talking to lots of agents … until they find one who clearly stands out.
You(Name) … based on everything I've shown you … do you believe I can find, negotiate and get you into your new home? Then put me to work!

“I'm not buying for another three to six months.”

ThemI'm not buying for another three to six months.
YouGreat, then it's an excellent time to do some research together. We'll have time to get to know each other.

“What if we don't like each other after we start working together?”

ThemWhat if we don't like each other after we're working together?
YouI can appreciate that … and my experience is the only way this will happen is if we're not in constant communication and open and honest about what's important … does that make sense?

“I promised a friend / my previous agent.”

ThemI have to keep my promise to a friend, or the previous agent I bought the home from.
YouThat's great, I can appreciate your loyalty and that's a quality I respect in people … so I'm curious, let me ask you this.
YouHas there ever been a time when you decided to buy something or do something, and because a friend said “hey no problem, when you need help I can do it” … and in the end, because you didn't check around, you really didn't get what you wanted? Have you ever been there before? (Yes)
YouWell this time is just like that time. And with that in mind, I'm sure you can see the importance of having me over just to give you a second opinion … that wouldn't hurt anything, would it?

Price

The hardest ones. Say the true number and keep the listing.

“Why is your price so much lower than the other agents?”

ThemWhy is your price so much lower than the other agents we've talked to? They have comps that are higher than yours.
YouIt's kind of confusing, isn't it? I mean, you interview four agents and you get four different prices … right? You're probably thinking, why did this person come in with such a low price? Doesn't he want my listing? Well my answer is yes and no.
YouYou see, there's a very big difference in the way I operate and the way most agents operate. Most agents manipulate the computer to show figures they think you want to hear — and you probably want to know why.
YouMost agents don't do a lot of business. Getting your listing makes them feel like they're accomplishing something. Whereas I, on the other hand, do a lot of sales per year by telling nice people like you the truth.
YouThey'll tell you whatever price they think you want to hear, even if they know six months from now you won't be happy with them at all, because no buyers will look at a house that's overpriced … does that make sense?
YouMy comps show the price I've indicated. I'll take the listing if you'll agree and sign an acknowledgement tonight that you'll reduce your home to my price in 30 days. I'd rather you turn down 10 offers than never get one.
YouThey emphasise listed prices. All I'm concerned about is what's sold and closed. You wouldn't want to base your price on erroneous info, would you?
YouThere are two ways to price your home … you can list it where it sits, or you can list it where it sells. Which is better for you?

“You've lowered our price three times and it still hasn't sold.”

ThemYou've lowered our price three times already and it's still not sold. How can you ask us to drop our price again?
YouYour frustration is valid. The marketplace is slipping out from underneath you … so let me ask you this.
YouWhen your neighbour's home, which is exactly the same model as yours, sells for $5,000 less than you're asking … who would pay more?
YouEven more importantly, there are three other properties on the market just like yours. One is listed $1,000 less than yours, another is $2,000 more, and the last is $1,500 less. If anybody is going to buy a 3 bedroom, 2½ bath with a 2-car garage, it'll be the home priced the lowest.
YouYou hired me to tell you the truth and get your home sold. If I could sell it for more, don't you think I'd want a higher commission? I'm sorry reality is so painful.
YouIf you'd like, we could cancel our listing agreement and I could give you the names of a couple of agents that specialise in overpriced homes that never sell. Is that what you want — or do you still want to work with someone who's on your side and tells the truth?

“We have a unique home, the right buyer hasn't come through yet.”

ThemWe have a unique home; the right buyer just hasn't come through yet.
YouYou're right. You do have a unique home … and I hate to tell you this, but at this price we'll probably never get the right buyer in here. May I tell you why? (Yes)
You90% of all buyers are represented by real estate agents … and agents qualify the buyer to find out how much they want to spend, how many bedrooms, how many bathrooms, what amenities they want.
YouThe problem is, the unique qualities of your home don't show up on the computer where agents get their information.
YouMeaning that based on your price, the number of bedrooms, baths and amenities, you won't get anyone here to appreciate the unique qualities. No matter how hard I market to these agents, in their mind it isn't the best buy on the market and they feel they're not serving their clients … do you see my point?

Timing

“Not yet”, in all its costumes.

“We're waiting to see if our loan modification goes through.”

ThemWe're waiting to see if our loan modification goes through.
YouThat's great … let's start pre-marketing the home as coming soon while you're waiting. If your modification goes through, you stay put. If for some reason it doesn't, we'll have a list of buyers ready to make an offer.

“I want to find a house before I put mine on the market.”

ThemI want to find a house before I put mine on the market.
YouI agree, finding your new home is important — and the unfortunate thing is it may take three to five months for your home to sell. Then another month to close, and by that time any home you'd have found will likely already be sold. Does that make sense?
YouLet's get your home on the market right now and get to work on getting it sold, so you don't have to wait any longer than necessary to move into your new home … sound good?
Alternative
YouTerrific! Have you seen a home you want to put a contract on? (No) Great — let me schedule a time with my buyer agent so they can help you find the perfect home. In the meantime I can be working on getting your home sold, so when we get a contract on your home we can put in a contract on your number one choice, close both homes the same day, and move only once. Won't that be great?

“We need to finish a couple of projects first.”

ThemWe aren't quite ready yet — we need to finish a couple of projects around the house first.
YouI agree that making sure the house is up to par is important … and you probably didn't realise how little effect it will have on securing a buyer.
YouLet's get your home listed for sale, get some of the top brokers inside to show the house and get their feedback.
Alternative
YouGreat — why don't we complete the paperwork now, and while you're doing your projects I'll get the flyer done and the paperwork processed, so when you're ready I'll be ready too. We can begin showing in 2–3 weeks.

“We'll list after the holidays.”

ThemWe'll list after the holidays.
YouI think that's perfectly valid — and tell me, how many days during November and December are you going to want all to yourselves? (About 10)
YouTen, that's great. So I guess my question is this … if I promise to keep everyone out of your hair for those 10 days … would you still want to compete with the low volume of property currently on the market, or the massive amount that will come on immediately after the holidays?
Alternative
YouLet's get a jump start on our competition. Why not complete the paperwork now, and I'll begin to pre-market your home and line up buyers — so when you're ready, we're ahead of the other sellers who are just getting started.

“We want to wait for the market to come back.”

ThemWe want to wait for the market to come back before we try to sell again.
Can you get around the fact that they don't want to sell? No. But keep digging — there may be an underlying motivation you don't know about that's forcing them to sell now. If you don't match their communication pattern they often won't feel comfortable telling you the truth.
YouIn today's economy the market is going to do one of two things — remain the same, or continue to go down. So you see, waiting just doesn't help, does it?

Other Agents

You are not the only agent they are talking to.

“We still need to interview one more agent.”

ThemWe still need to interview one more agent.
Even after they promised you'd be the last. This is not the real objection. What they're saying is “we don't see why we should pay you money to sell our home.” You have to flush out the real one.
YouYou know … I can appreciate the fact that you want another opinion. And the fact I was told I'd be the last agent interviewed only tells me one thing. Can I share it with you? (Yes)
YouSomewhere, somehow, I have not completely convinced you that I can sell your home.
YouSo tell me … what is it, specifically, that's stopping you from putting me to work tonight?
That should get you the real objection. Two alternatives:
YouI can appreciate that before we met today you set up another appointment. I'm sure you'll agree my qualifications will be tough to beat. Let's get your home on the market tonight — I'll be happy to call the agent, cancel your appointment, and it'll be one less delay in getting your home sold.
YouAgents work together. I'll call him tonight and let him know we listed the home, and we'll give him the first shot at it with his buyers before we put it in the MLS.

“We want to compare what you're saying to other Realtors.”

ThemWe want to compare what you're saying to other Realtors.
YouGreat! I think that's one of the best things you could do. And before I go … tell me, what is it specifically that's stopping you from picking up that pen and listing your home with me? (We're just a little shocked by the price.)
YouHey, I understand — and let me ask you this. If I could help you realise that your home will not sell for a dollar more than what I've told you … if you felt completely satisfied that it was true … would you still want to waste your valuable time talking to another Realtor, or would you just list with me tonight?
ThemWell, I guess if we felt comfortable, we'd list with you tonight.
YouGreat!
Then simply go back through the CMA and convince them.

“We have a good friend in the business.”

ThemWe have a good friend in the business.
YouI can appreciate that — almost everybody does. So when would you like to see how 85% of the homes I list sell, and why only 40% of the homes listed with other agents sell? Which is better for you, 6:00 or 7:30?
Alternative
YouYour friends will want the very best for you, correct? (Yes) I'll be happy to call them for you.
Alternative
YouAre you willing to jeopardise your friendship? You owe your friend friendship. You owe me nothing. But you owe yourself the best. Don't you want the best agent working for you?

“We're already committed to another agent.”

ThemWe're already committed to another agent.
YouGreat! So you've already signed a listing agreement? (Well, no.)
YouSo you're not committed … you're just promised, right? (Right)
YouI'm okay if you don't list your home with me. However, if you're thinking of interviewing more agents for the job of selling your home, it's vitally important that you understand the different marketing approaches so you don't get burned the next time. Now, you don't want to get burned again, do you?
YouSo let me ask you … do you know the difference between passive and active marketing? (No)
Then run the passive-vs-active explanation below.

“I'd like to see what other options I have.”

ThemI haven't had a chance to interview anyone else. I'd like to take some time and see what other options I have.
YouI welcome it. Take your time to make sure you're making the best possible decision for you.
Then help them understand the difference between you and the alternative: the game plan, the representation, the negotiating skills, and the time you can devote to them.

FSBOs & Expireds

“We'll do it ourselves” and “the last agent never showed it.”

“We want to try selling it ourselves.”

ThemWe want to try selling it ourselves.
YouI totally understand the thought of trying to get a home sold yourself … I mean, let's face it, saving that commission can mean some good money in your pocket, right? (Right)
YouSo I'm curious — are you familiar with the difference between passive and active marketing? (No)
YouReal quick … passive marketing is basically sitting around doing nothing: holding open houses, sending out flyers, advertising in the newspaper. Were you thinking about doing any of those? (Yeah) I was afraid of that.
YouThese methods only work about 25% of the time. Yet agents sell this concept as if it were the answer to all your problems … right? Which makes you think, well, what's so hard about that, I could do that … right?
YouThe problem is, it doesn't get a home sold any more. Do you understand now what I mean by passive — sitting around with your fingers crossed, waiting for the buyer?
YouActive marketing, on the other hand, is literally getting on the phone every single day and personally contacting as many people as I can — 25, 50, even 100 a day.
YouThe key is asking them if they'd like to buy your home, if they know someone who would, or if they'd like to sell their home. Do you know why I ask if they'd like to sell? Because the more signs I have, the more buyer calls I get to show your home. Does that make sense?
YouNow … which way, passive or active, do you believe will get your home sold? And you understand that I'm doing active marketing on you as we speak, right?
YouSo how many people do you think you could call a day to try and get your home sold? And by the way, have you ever done telephone soliciting before?
Alternative
YouYou can try it. Lots of people do. It's like going to Las Vegas — millions of people go, and every now and then someone hits the jackpot, but the vast majority lose money, or Las Vegas wouldn't be there. Every now and then a seller hits the jackpot, but the vast majority need a Realtor, or the real estate industry wouldn't be here.
Alternative
YouJohn, you're an attorney and try cases in court daily. I can't imagine walking in and trying the case myself. I'm a professional real estate agent. I know what I'm doing. I'm here to release you from the extra stress. I earn my commission, I bring you top dollar, I close the deal.

“The last agent never showed our home himself.”

ThemThe last agent never showed our home himself, and neither did anyone else from his office.
YouDid they promise you they'd be showing your home non-stop? (Yes)
YouWell then, I can appreciate what you're telling me … you see, I promise you I will not be showing your home. Do you want to know why? (Yes)
YouThe agents in my office are not part of the top 100 agents in the area that sell 88% of the homes listed for sale.
YouI'm curious … did you want me marketing your property to the people that sell homes, or the agents that just do okay? (The agents that sell the homes.)
YouThat's why I promise to market your home to the agents that sell homes and not to the agents that don't … is that okay with you? (Yes) I thought so.

The Techniques Behind Them

The three moves every handler above is built out of. Learn these and you can write your own.

“What specifically causes you to believe…?”

For when their position doesn't match what they say they want.

Use this when the client is taking an illogical position — when their cause-and-effect reality doesn't match their intent. They want to sell the home, yet they think “my home is better, which justifies raising my price.” People think in cause and effect; this challenges theirs.
The purpose is to flush out the REAL objection. It is confrontational — soften it by starting with “I'm curious…” or “I was wondering…”
ThemWe're going to re-list with the same agent.
YouWhat specifically causes you to believe that the same agent can do the same thing and get a different result?
ThemWe need to talk to a couple of agents.
YouWhat specifically causes you to believe that I'm not the perfect agent for you?
ThemI'll sell it myself.
YouWhat specifically causes you to believe you're going to do anything but lose money on the sale of your home?
ThemI want to price it at X.
YouWhat specifically causes you to believe that you understand how to determine the value of a home?
ThemI have a friend.
YouWhat specifically causes you to believe your friend won't let you down — and that you won't lose that friend?
ThemI want to be able to cancel at any time.
YouWhat specifically causes you to believe that I won't produce the results I'm promising to produce?

Level-Shifting

Change what the objection MEANS before you answer it.

Our biggest problem with objections is the meaning WE attach to them. We don't hear the objection — we hear our meaning. If our meaning disempowers us, we answer from defence. Level-shifting attaches a new meaning and moves the conversation somewhere you feel powerful.
Always start with agreement: “I can appreciate that.” “I understand your concern.” “That's a valid concern.” “That makes sense.” “I can understand how you feel.”
Then shift, using any of these openers:
YouWhat I think you're saying is… / The real issue is… / What appears most important to you is… / What it sounds like you're saying is… / I believe the real question is… / What that really means is… / So what you mean is…
Worked examples — ask yourself which word you'd rather be talking about
ThemI don't want to pay full commission!
You(Commission, or net?) I can completely understand you don't want to pay a full commission, and what I hear you really saying is … I need to have a certain amount of money to get to my next home … right?
ThemI want lots of advertising!
You(Advertising, or exposure?) That makes sense, and I think you're looking for an agent that can give you maximum exposure … aren't you?
ThemStart high!
You(Price, or motivation?) It sounds like you're saying you're not really interested in moving in the next 60 days … is that right?

“Has there ever been a time when…?”

Use their own past to show them they're about to repeat it.

Use the client's own past experience. Show them they're about to make the same mistake twice — people hate doing that, especially when someone else knows about it.
The five steps: 1) Acknowledge and agree with the objection. 2) Ask “has there ever been a time when…” and describe something general anyone could relate to. 3) “Has that ever happened to you?” 4) “This time is just like that time — can I explain?” 5) Explain the similarities with stories, case studies and social proof. Then close.
There are three ways to present a handler: hard to say yes to, easy to say yes to, and STUPID not to say yes to. Aim for the third. Asking questions and leading them is infinitely more powerful than making statements.
ThemWe're going to re-list with the same agent.
YouI can appreciate that you want to list with the same agent. And … let me ask you, has there ever been a time in your life when you wanted to get results, and what you tried didn't work — but you tried it again anyway … and it still didn't work?
YouThis time is like that time. You see, agents generally have one approach they use to get homes sold, and it doesn't always work … you know that now, don't you? Doesn't it make sense to meet with me and find out why my listings sell for top dollar?
ThemI don't care what other homes are selling for, I think my home is worth X.
YouI think it's great that you believe in the value of your home. Let me ask this … has there ever been a time in your life where you had a strong belief about something, spent a lot of time believing it was true … only to find out later you'd been wrong all along? Has that ever happened to you?
YouThis time is just like that time … can I explain?
Nothing matches that yet. Try a simpler word, like price, expired, friend or holidays.

Based on Tom Ferry's dialogues and NLP training, rewritten for Provident agents. The blanks are yours — the rest works best said the way it's written.